Virtual dating, online dating u name it.
People who are insecure or unhappy with themselves are online who they want to be. they use pictures cause they think they're not good lookin enough to get a date ONLINE!!
When u vDate isn't it all about the personality? Why use fake pictures and lie about yoruself when it doesn't even matter how you look? You may never meet the person in real life anyway, and IF you want to, and you really have true feelings for the person online but you used fake pictures, you lied about the person you are. In what possition are you then? Everyone should be happt with who they are and if a person really suites you, they will love you for who you are, or do you want people to love you for who they think you are but you really are not? How do you think the other person would feel when he/she finds out? Betrayed.
&& Why do people lie so much online? Or is it just online? Do they do it irl too?
Is it to protect their ID or just cause they think its "fun".
Honestly I don´t get it.
Since i´m more online i see alot of people who are fake and after a while the truth comes out anyway and they will loose close friends. Honestly, I don´t really care if my online friends use real or fake pictures. What matters to me is that they are honest to me about themselves, don´t get an attitude online when you´re irl a really diff person, don´t lie to me or make up stuff about you or other people thats not true. And I want people to be happy with who they are cause, idk but if u use pics online from someone else and everyone is like omg you´re so hot! and you know they´re really not talking about you, how does that make you feel?
I'm just trying to understand it.
But, i don't care if people use fake pics, as long as they are honest to me about who they are inside.
THIS IS completely true :O ppl use fake pics to get more people to talk to them duh? but truely it shouldnt matter how you look.. the happier you are with urself the more people are going to want to talk to you! most people who go online are the ones who are afraid to be open irl ;/ which idont understand since im the one thats always up beat and wants to talk to everyone.. but people shouldnt be fake but everyones lied abuot something b4!!! and the dateing online.. we all know that people r dateing someone fake.. but when we tell them they dont belive us? or think we are jelous? it gets alll complicated then they find out the truth! =/ so just dont be fake to start with :D
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